I wrote this book in response to the widespread regurgitation of inaccurate information that is often accepted as absolute truths in the arena of dating and relationships.

At the opening of the book, we explored the significance of the word “consent.” By doing so, we highlighted that it’s a woman’s prerogative and authority to decide with whom she engages in sexual activity and who father’s her children. As such, her values, standards, and approach to relationships are what men must consider and respond to.

Women hold the power of choice regarding sexual relationships, while men live in the realm of making romantic requests.

My book emphasized that sexual activity requires a woman’s consent; without such consent, it is a criminal act of rape. Therefore, women are responsible for carefully selecting partners who deserve their love, joy, and trust and could potentially be their children’s fathers.

I wholeheartedly believe it’s of the utmost importance for women to take accountability for their choices in sexual partners, whether good or bad, and learn from any poor decisions they may have made.

Men can only have sex with willing, consenting partners. Therefore, if men are ruthlessly playing the sport of sex and dating, that’s because men can easily find consenting females who are happy to participate in this illicit sexual contact sport. If women stop being the sexual playthings of men and require commitment, then the sport of sex and dating would end.

Men who need more discipline will find themselves lacking the moral fortitude required throughout their lives. In other words, the principles they should have practiced and developed will most likely be unavailable when needed. Therefore, when their sexual partners request faithfulness, commitment, and the sharing of responsibilities, they will do what they have always done, run away. 

In my book, I highlighted that throughout history, women have been the divine source of inspiration for men. Their presence has motivated men to build, innovate, protect, and provide for their families.

Men have faced countless dangerous encounters while gathering food for their loved ones in unknown environments and have even fought in battles risking their lives to ensure their family’s safety. Even today, men continue to take on hazardous jobs to provide for their partners.

Women have always been and will remain essential to men’s lives.

Unfortunately, some women advocate the idea that they and their offspring can do without the support of men.

As individuals, we possess the ability to make choices. We must thoroughly examine, scrutinize, and consider all relevant information before making decisions that align with our desired outcomes.

It would be unfair to hold others accountable for our personal choices.