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The Consequence of Choice; My Inside Voice.

We are thrilled to share our first publication with you.

About The Book

Have you ever wondered why your relationships keep falling apart? Why is marriage no longer an appealing prerequisite or the endgame of dating and relationships? Or why do the broken fragments between sex, love, and fidelity never seem to connect?
The Consequence of Choice takes us on a unique Journey into the heart of relationship conflict, observed through the lens of women’s romantic decisions and the outcomes they hope to achieve. It also looks at how men interpret women’s romantic choices, whether men’s responses to those decisions are innate, and how their actions don’t often align with the utopian aspirations women desire.
 
The author, Bernard R. Pilgrim, believes that critically examining our preconceived notions about dating, relationships, and marriage will guide our path in embracing fidelity and intimacy in our relationships; thus, allowing our vetted dating decisions based on reality, rather than unrealistic expectations, will help us negate The Consequence of Choice.
 
Some of the topics discussed are:
 
  • Why do men cheat?
  • The Miseducation of Sexual Freedom
  • The Sport of Sex and Dating
  • Directed Perception
  • Killing Weakness
  • The Bait and Switch
  • Superficial Beauty
  • Parasitic Apathy of Relationships
  • Dating/Relationship Misconceptions
  • The Discipline of Men
  • The Paradox of Fear, Love, and Sex
  • The Puppet Master
  • The Church of Fashion and Beauty
  • The Sins of Mothers
  • The Sins of Fathers
  • The True King Queen
  • The Church Girl
  • The Distasteful Exploits of Men

BOOK EXCERPT

Chapter 1

As I sit here contemplating this complex difficulty, I’ve been replaying unbridled conversations I’ve had with male friends and acquaintances, who, in most cases, would never share their innermost feelings openly. I’ve also thought about my in-depth discussions with women while replaying their social interactions with their significant intimate partners and other men. All the relationship articles I’ve read, and the many shows I’ve watched, have led me to conclude most women in our society believe all men cheat…

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Why Do Men Cheat?

Chapter 3

You need to understand men don’t play sports or games with any emotional attachment. Men see sports or games as battles they’ll fight with rage, aggression, and reckless dogmatic abandonment of self-preservation, which allows them to be void of all sympathy for their opponents. Unfortunately, this lack of attachment in some men can lead them to unconsciously venture into the realm of hate and uncontrollable anger, which can produce an abusive permissive dispensation, leading them to become mentally and…
 
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The Sport of Sex ans Dating

Chapter 11

Chivalry among men evolved into a natural response to how women valued, presented, and epitomized themselves by humbly displaying their values and self-worth to the world. This allowed men to see them as precious creatures, a prize worthy of their protection, respect, honor, and commitment. The gallantry of chivalry offered a window or a front-row seat into the souls of men, revealing how men saw or felt about women. Men, led by a sense of politeness and gentility, willingly and without fear expressed their deep emotions through acts of…
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The Discipline of Men

Author Bio

Bernard R. Pilgrim hails from the picturesque island of Barbados, renowned for its crystal-clear waters, immaculate beaches, rum, and Calypso music…
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DATE

2023

Location

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